Why can't i stop bad things in my life?
Maybe that question ever comes to your life as well. When we step once to repentance than we step back twice to the sin.
Based on a video that i watched, when we want to stop ourselves from doing bad habits. So we should address two sides. Those are psychological side and the spiritual side.
In Psychology, there're triggers. it means that when you start doing something your brain releases chemical things that you want to do certain setting.
For example, when a man watches a movie therein shows a beautiful woman and it attracts that man to see such a beautiful woman and keep doing something worse. Then this can give an addiction to our mind to do the same every time so the man is triggered.
So when we want to stop this bad we should pay attention to both sides, which are spiritual side and psychological side.
Just realize that we're human being that not perfect and always doing mistakes. But we should strike our intention to be a good human definitely. Because as the believers, we believe that what we do in this world we will pay responsibility for doing it. Allah is the Forgiveness, but His punishment also severe. So what we should do is keep our mind stick to the rope of Allah. For the psychological side, when we do the sins alone, so we should keep ourselves aware to our weakness. Don't keep ourselves drawn from people. Because we used to commit sins in loneliness. If there's a chance to do something bad, hasten your self to stop it on the spot. Close every chance to do sins.
As a sin, a good also can be like a cycle. So draw ourselves to do good thing, when you start something good, another good will follow you. So we need to break the cycle of sin and replace it with good deeds.
And the rest is we seek refuge from the best protector all over the world. May Allah keep us away from the hell fire and its smoke.
25 rabiul Akhir 1439 AH
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